DOES THIS MAKE ME A OR BIUAL?

sometimes it takes for some women to be with a man to decide if men is what they want, or women.i have friends who married men and had kids, then came out of the closet and said i ve always been a . every situation ive heard has its own unique story. so be who u wanna be, and don't worry about labels. u only need to define who u are to yourself...hope this helps.