Are their any s out there liek this?

i am a christian, dont do drugs , drink or smoke, and im family oriented. idk why but all the s ive met so far tend to be like anti christian becuase of the whole gay hating issues, and then a lot of the recommend to go to th "gay bar" i dont drink etc... how do i get a that matches my itnerests.>>?? also i like butch women or femme idc its about the personaltiy